How do you feel when you are to present information, even to people you are famil-iar with? If you’re like most people, you will suffer from nervous anxiety or, at best, have ‘butterflies’ in the stomach.
How can we calm our nerves? Why do we suffer from ‘nerves’ and how can we calm them in a situation where we feel fearful of the actual act or the consequences of it?
Firstly, realise that being nervous is normal, so don’t think that there’s something wrong with you or that you shouldn’t be feeling this way. The question shouldn’t be ‘how can I not be nervous?’ Some degree of nervous tension is actually a good thing. It gets the adrenaline flowing and prepares your body and mind for action.
The question should be ‘how do I calm my nerves before a presentation?’ You can manage an over-nervous reaction by practicing deep breathing. It may not get rid of the nerves but it will help you to manage them, as you introduce more oxygen into the body.
Firstly, though, why do we get nervous? How do we deal with a nervous disposi-tion?
Well, your body cannot distinguish very well between different types of danger. Your mind prompts the body to interpret the presentation as a dangerous situation, which builds anxiety and, possibly, fear. Why would it do this? It’s because you are preparing for either fight or flight, which is our reptilian normal reaction to danger. If you get wounded in a fight, for example, it’s probably better not to have food in the stomach.
So, the natural reaction is to get rid of it. That’s why you naturally feel sick when you perceive dangerous situations. You can see that your perception of a situation plays a big part in keeping these physical reactions under control. So, the most im-portant step is to manage your perception of the occasion, making sure you see the audience as being people who need your information, guidance, knowledge, exper-tise, experience and leadership.
That still won’t always help calm your nerves, though. What can you do to remain calm? How can you build confidence when you are feeling nervous?
Here are some tips that will calm the nerves and make you feel more confident be-fore a presentation:
So, what’s the best way to control nerves before and during a presentation? Prepare well, be aware that your audience really wants to know what you have to say, and create a confident demeanour while speaking. Those nerves will soon be in the background as your presentation is a hit!