As Elton John eloquently put it, “Sorry seems to be the hardest word”. Why is it difficult for some managers to admit mistakes, learn from them and move on?
Much of it has to do with how they think they will be viewed by others if the have to say ‘sorry’. With some other managers, it is how they will make themselves feel if they have to admit to an error. They don’t have the self-confidence or the security within themselves to own up to doing something wrong or erroneous.
So, what’s the best way of handling this kind of situation if you decide that the best and right thing to do is admit it and deal with it? Here’s a quick checklist that might help:
Whatever the reasons for you having to say sorry, the stresses we are all under can push us too far sometimes. Accept responsibility, decide that you would like to clear the air and show humility, and you may lay the foundation for trust to be rebuilt.
p.s. Oh, and one last thing…learn from what you did and see if you can stop it happening again. Sorry, I missed that one out!
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Mark Williams is a learning and development professional, using business psychology and multiple intelligences to create fascinating and quickly-identifiable learning initiatives in the real-world business setting. Mark’s role at MTD is to ensure that our training is leading edge, and works closely with our trainers to develop the best learning experiences for all people on learning programmes. Mark designs and delivers training programmes for businesses both small and large and strives to ensure that MTD’s clients are receiving the very best training, support and services that will really make a difference to their business.